I am afraid next to riding?

My girlfriend has a few horses and have invited me to ride. And I said that i would love to come.
Problem I dont know how to ride and my uncle died when he fell off a horse 2 years ago. I don't dare to run...what should I do?


Answers:    Try not to let what happen to your uncle stop you. Look at it this way: millions of relations drive cars, and yes, some of them get kill doing it. It is the same next to riding horses. Your chances of getting kill while riding are very, enormously slim.

Does your girlfriend know that you are scared and why you are anxious? Let her know that you are nervous in the region of it. I bet it would mean closely to her if you went riding next to her.

Hopefully at least one of her horses is beginner-friendly, and she will put you on a horse you don't enjoy to be afraid of.
I am sure your girlfriend will be understanding if you explain to her why you are afraid of riding horses.

Alternatively, you might find that the best style to get over your distress of horses is to hop on one of your girlfriend's horses and ride around for a bit. If she has a fundamentally beginner-friendly horse (see: "bomb proof") that would be best. Horses can be scary if you don't know how to ride, but study isn't hard, and in that is no better place than on a horse's back. =)
You enjoy a very apposite reason to be upset so I'm sure she'll understand. Just explain you want to pinch it steady and ask her to give you pointers. Ask her to contribute you little lessons or ask her if she know an instructor who might be able to edify you (sometimes it's not good to try and school your partner anything, can end contained by arguments!!). If you don't want to go later don't, maybe conduct her to the stables a few times and get to know the horses from the ground back you start to ride, this will help build your confidence and possibly then you could pick which horse you would get the impression more comfortable having a walk on. Good luck! x

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